常见问题解答

Below you will find definitions and answers to common questions regarding sexual assault, 约会暴力, 和被人跟踪.

什么是性侵犯?

Conduct of indecent or sexual nature towards another person, accompanied by actual or threatening 物理 force upon a person without consent. Or, it is inflicted upon a person who is incapable of giving consent due to age, 物理, 或者精神上的丧失能力.

What should I do if I have been, or know someone who, has been sexually assaulted?

It is always up to the survivor what resources they would like to utilize. We recommend receiving a medical exam after an assault, to consult with a nurse or doctor about related issues, 即使没有明显的身体创伤. The Family Advocacy Network (粉丝) in Kearney provides medical exams to survivors.

家庭倡导网络: (308) 865-7492 
体育菠菜大平台学生健康: (308) 865-8218
好撒玛利亚人医院: (308) 865-7100

If you would like to discuss options for pursuing an investigation or pressing charges, please contact the 体育菠菜大平台 Campus Police or Kearney Police Department. 您也可以联系 受害人/证人援助组 在科尔尼警察局.

体育菠菜大平台警察局: (308) 865-8911
科尔尼警察局: (308) 237-2104
如果您有紧急危险,请拨打911.

性侵犯是一件创伤性很强的事情. We encourage you to speak to someone about what happened. We also encourage you to speak with a counselor to help you cope with the 物理 and emotional effects of sexual assault.

体育菠菜大平台咨询: (308) 865-8248
S.A.F.E. Center: (308) 237-2599

For more information on how to help a friend or loved one, please visit: http://www.rainn.org/articles/tips-talking-survivors-sexual-assault

什么是约会(家庭)暴力?

Relationship 暴力 or dating abuse is a pattern of destructive behaviors used to exert power and control over a dating partner. 

What are some behaviors commonly found in abusive relationships?

There are many different types of relationship abuse and many different ways that an abuser may try to exert power over another. 

  • 情感虐待: 叫名字, 大喊大叫, verbal threats to harm you or people you care about, preventing you from seeing other friends or family, 告诉你该做什么或穿什么, making you feel guilty or immature when you do not consent to a sexual activity
  • 身体虐待: any type of 物理 暴力 used against a victim. 抓住你的脸强迫你看他们, 强迫你发生性行为或进行性行为, and using any type of weapon are also forms of 物理 abuse.
  • 金融滥用: 以任何方式限制你的财务自由. This may include not permitting you to work or limiting your hours, 隐藏或窃取任何形式的收入, 或者未经允许使用你的信用卡.
  • 性虐待: 任何形式的非自愿的性接触. 这可能包括不必要的亲吻或触摸, 强奸, refusing to use condoms or other forms of birth control, 威胁不想要的性行为, or forbidding a victim from protecting themselves from sexually transmitted infections. 
  • 滥用网络: any form of control or exploitation through techno日志y. This may include not allowing you to friend people on Facebook or follow someone on Twitter, 不停地发短信或打电话, 用GPS追踪你, 强迫你发送艳照, 盗取密码, 或者经常看手机.

 

What should I do if I or someone I know is experiencing relationship 暴力?

If you or someone you know is experiencing relationship 暴力, 找一个你可以信任的人谈谈. The most important step is finding someone you can confide in that can help you. If you feel like you are in immediate danger, please call 911. 

If you do not feel comfortable telling someone in your life, you can always reach out to campus and community services that provide counseling and resources for relationship 暴力.

体育菠菜大平台性别 & 性资源办公室:(308)865-8751
体育菠菜大平台咨询: (308) 865-8248
S.A.F.E. 中心: (308) 237-2599 
家庭倡导中心(粉丝): (308) 865-7492

If you want to contact authorities or take legal action, please contact campus police or the community police.

体育菠菜大平台警察局: (308) 865-8911
科尔尼警察局: (308) 237-2104

什么是跟踪?

根据美国.S. 律政司, stalking is defined as "a pattern of repeated and unwanted attention, 骚扰, contact or any other conduct directed at a specific person that would cause a reasonable person to feel fear."

什么是跟踪行为?

因为跟踪者通常是你认识的人, stalking behaviors may not seem odd or make you uncomfortable in the beginning. 跟踪 behaviors often escalate rapidly; it is necessary to be vigilant and look out for things that make you uncomfortable. 

跟踪 behaviors may include showing up at your work or other places you go on a regular basis, 反复打电话, 送不想要的礼物, 网络跟踪, 联系朋友和家人来找你, 毁坏你的财产, 暴力, 包括暴力威胁, 和持续, 不想要的任何形式的接触. 

What should I do if I or someone I know is being stalked?

If you feel like you or your friend is in immediate danger, call 911. 

A great tool to use when dealing with a stalker is to keep a stalking incident 日志. 因为跟踪是很难起诉的罪行, a 日志 can help prove the frequency and duration of these behaviors. A 日志 can also help reassure the victim that these behaviors are not normal. It is best to also save anything a stalker may send you. Keep any letters or notes from the person and also any communication via techno日志y. If friends or family also witness any of these behaviors, have them also write in the 日志.

It is also best to make a safety plan in the case that they follow you home or show up somewhere abruptly and you are in danger. 告诉家人, 雇主, and friends can help to make the people in your life aware of the situation.

The best way to end these behaviors is to get police involved.

体育菠菜大平台警察局: (308) 865-8911
科尔尼警察局: (308) 237-2104